Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Dear Heart...

got this email from my friend, Izza, who was asking for an advice about her love predicament...

After the tragic break up that i encounter last August 2008, I felt that i'm not capable to fall inlove again. Ive also decided that i'll just focus on my career and family. Being fooled and trapped for almost 3years is the most painful feeling that ive felt. I thought im tired of loving someone. But now after 7months from that breakup I think im fAlling inlove again not w/ the same person who made me cry and break my heart. A simple, young guy caught my attention despite of his age and status. Everyday conversation is the main reason why ive been too close to him. Is it possible for me to love a person eventhough i don't know him better?

Why im feeling this way?I also don't know if the feeling is mutual. I guess I shouldnt expect. Maybe i just anticipated the attention he gave to me. And maybe i need a break to all this crazy little thing called love.

my piece of advice:

it's an overwhelming feeling to fall in love again.. if the feeling is mutual, why abandon the emotion? you dont need a break.. you need another heart to make you whole again. it's just a matter of trusting your heart to make the right decisions.. it doesn't matter if he's younger or older.. what matters is both of you feel the need of belonging to each other and you are happy. follow where your heart is..

you can always listen to your head for reason, but you need to follow your heartbeat.. just make sure that what you are feeling is not the product of your previous breakup.. in short, make sure na di sya panakip-butas..

remember, falling in love is one of the greatest things that man has been offered to feel... go go go!

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